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Since my sense of worth has been punctured and my urges have been uncontrollable, I switched guys. I became a lady you shouldn't play with because looking innocent, playing with your emotions, satisfying my urge, and breaking up became my hobby. I am irresistible, sexy, and dangerous. That made me happy.

I control myself and any man around me. It was revenge, so I thought, but I enjoyed every single thing I was doing, and I was so blessed with Taylor Swift. Her heartbreak songs always inspire me to do more.

I became strong-hearted, went for who I wanted, and then dropped them when I'm done. I was never into a nightstand. I have a proper relationship and move on when I'm done. At least, it's decent. 

2 things make me dump a guy: his ambition not being as strong as mine and unsatisfied urge. They became determinants of how long the relationship would last, but it still ended after all.

I got tired of playing with people's emotions, so I took a break. I don't have to be in a relationship before satisfying my urge. So I started keeping partners that I'm not emotionally attached to, and I leave them once I notice they are getting attached.

These happened for a year because I got tired of doing that. I hated the way they called and acted, like I played with their emotions, which I didn't. The drama was worse than that of being in a relationship with them, so I had to stop.

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